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6 Life Lessons You Need To Hear (in under 5 minutes)

6 Life Lessons You Need To Hear (in under 5 minutes)

 

6 Incredible Life Lessons You Need To Learn

I’m going to make this quick because let’s be honest… I wish I learned these quicker.

1. Conforming to society will not satisfy YOU.

Society will push a certain weight, a certain style, a certain attitude, a certain job, a certain anything, but hear me out right now: if you are doing something simply because society favors it, it is not healthy for you.  You can fit society’s mold all you want, but I promise you will not feel better about yourself; instead you will be tired, frustrated, and disappointed in the result.  More importantly, you will never be satisfied and truly happy until you do what your mind and body is telling you to do.

 

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2. Never, ever say anything negative to yourself that you wouldn’t say to someone else.

Seriously.  You don’t deserve that.  Treat others the way you want to be treated is the Golden Rule.  But, the SHINY Golden Rule is the reverse: treat yourself the way you want to treat others.  Would you walk around calling strangers ‘fat’ or getting down on them for a pimple on their forehead? No.  So, why do that to yourself?

 

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3. Stop playing victim.

This one is brutally honest, yet incredibly important.

“Self-pity is easily the most destructive of the nonpharmaceutical narcotics; it is addictive, gives momentary pleasure and separates the victim from reality.” – John Gardner

Collectively as humans, we love to play victim; feel sorry for ourselves, act like the world is against us.  It gives us a reason to hide behind as to why things aren’t going as we desire.  In addition, playing victim gets us attention, and who doesn’t love attention.

However this self-pity attitude is not only a hiding place from reality, but it is tearing us away from our dreams.  By playing victim we are giving up the power to control our lives and decide where we end up, when really that power IS all ours.

Stop wasting time acting like the world is against you when the truth is the world is yours. 

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4. If you don’t like something, change it.

RE: above.  If you don’t like something, I am thrilled to tell you that you can change it.  You simply have to decide that you want to and believe in yourself and the power you have to control your life.  When it comes down to it, you are the only person in the world who has complete and utter control over who and what effects your life.  You just have to take that power. -> This can help you! <-

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5. Hang on with dear life to the good ones.

The world is full of shitty people.  But, the world is also full of angels.  When you meet a good one, when someone treats you right, do not let them go.  However, rid yourself as freely as you desire of the bad ones.  You deserve more.
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6. You are allowed to say ‘no’, heck you should say ‘no’ especially if on the inside you are saying ‘no’.

No matter how hard it is to say no, you can, and you should say ‘no’ especially if in your heart and soul you want to say ‘no’.  More importantly, you do not have to feel bad about saying ‘no’.  Here is a good place to start if you struggle with this.

 


 

Are you feeling empowered after reading this blog post?  Like you are ready to take on the world? GOOD, here is your next step.

 

Oh! And pin this for daily reminders.

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ymycolby

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